孤独，是成年人的必修课。
<!----><style type="text/css">html{font-size:375%}</style><link href="https://pic.app.ytbbs.com/static/publish/css/style.css?v=20240712" rel="stylesheet" position="1" data-qf-origin="/static/publish/css/style.css?v=20240712"><!-- 付费贴--> <div class="preview_article "> <!----> <p>《繁花》中一段话让人很感动："我们不必再联系了，年纪越长，越觉得孤独是正常的，独自出生，独立死亡。人和人，无法相通，人间的佳恶情态，已经不值一笑，人生是一次荒凉的旅行。"</p><p>孤独，才是成年人生命中的必修课。年轻时总以为朋友遍天下，推杯换盏间都是真情。可岁月这把筛子，终究会筛掉那些逢场作戏的过客。</p><p>同床尚可异梦，何况人海相逢你掏心掏肺说的心里话，在别人耳中不过是茶余饭后的谈资。你以为的感同身受，不过是对方礼貌性的附和。</p><p>何必强求理解？何必渴望懂得？每个人都在自己的轨道上运行，偶尔交汇已是幸运，何必奢求永远同行。</p><p>真正的成熟，是学会与孤独共处就像大海中的孤岛，看似独立，实则与万物相连。独处不是寂寞，而是给自己腾出呼吸的空间。</p><p>"人生而孤独，却不甘寂寞。"可偏偏就是这份"不甘"，让我们在关系中伤痕累累。</p><p>与其在人群中强颜欢笑，不如在独处时修炼内心。孤独不是缺爱，而是学会了自爱。</p><p>荒凉之处，恰见真章当你看透人间的虚情假意，反而能看清什么最值得珍惜。当你不再把希望寄托于他人，才能真正掌控自己的人生。</p><p>这场旅行看似荒凉，却让我们有机会遇见最真实的自己。孤独是生命的底色，自在是灵魂的归处。</p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" contenteditable="false"><img 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我为伊狂 发表于 2025-11-12 07:54
享受孤独也是一种快乐 挺好 以前怕别人说不合群，努力的融入和迎合别人。现在无所谓了，爱谁谁，享受孤独也是一种乐趣。人生来就是孤独的，终究还是自己跟自己相处。
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